Every day when I go to visit mama in this new
nursing home it gets worse & worse. Today I went to visit & she
was a little better (a little more alert) than yesterday which
indicates that the new breathing treatments are working well & not
knocking her out as much. So I go & get dad bring him back to see
her when I notice that she has a new patch behind her right ear. It
looks familiar like the scopolamine
patch she had once at the hospital that made her quite sick. The
scopolamine is on her allergy list. They are never supposed to give it
to her. So I walk down the hall & ask the nurse "What is the patch
behind her ear?" She looks up mom's med list and says "There is no
medication on her list that is a patch. It must not have been put on by
us. Well she has been there since Thursday last week & if she
hadn't been cleaned by then & the patch removed that's pretty sad. I
had also been checking behind her ears everyday & I do mean
EVERYDAY.
It wasn't there last night. So I told her that I checked her ear
last night & it wasn't there. How does the patch get on her if
there are no orders for it & it isn't in her med list? And she says
"Well I don't know because I didn't apply it" That's it. Just not my
problem because I didn't apply it. No ideas of who I should take it up
with. Nothing. So I said I am going down & removing it since it is
prolly the one she's allergic to & there are no orders for it. Ok?
She said sure. What else could she say? So I am walking around with
the d*** thing on the end of my finger like an idiot not thinking of
what it might do to me when she suggests I do something else with it. I
put it on a paper towel intending to drive to every pharmacy, even an
ER to ask if someone can identify what has been on my mom. I had to
drive dad back to his nursing home & when I got there I asked his
nurse if she knew what it looked like & she said scopolamine. The
Fentanyl patch for pain is usually whiter & the nico???? patch is
larger. This she said was the one from the allergic med list from the
hospital. All I know is no wonder she hasn't been acting right since
she got there. God knows what else they have been administering w/o MD
orders?
I have been trying & trying to get her in another
nursing home with no success so basically this place is going to be
allowed to harm her. I am not finding many options.
Tuesday, February 5, 2013
Sunday, February 3, 2013
The 7 stages of Alzheimer's
7 Stages of Alzheimer's
The seven stages of Alzheimer's are helpful in finding the words to
discuss Alzheimer's. Caregivers find them particularly useful in support
groups, as well as in conversations with doctors and other
professionals.
Although the progression of Alzheimer's disease can be slowed down today thanks to today's medications, it cannot as of yet be stopped. The process is described in general terms as going through 3 steps:
For more meaningful terms between professionals, caregivers and patients, a more detailed process has been characterized in seven stages. The seven stages are based on a system developed by Barry Reisberg, M.D., clinical director of the New York University School of Medicine’s Silberstein Aging and Dementia Research Center.
Although the progression of Alzheimer's disease can be slowed down today thanks to today's medications, it cannot as of yet be stopped. The process is described in general terms as going through 3 steps:
- Mild Alzheimer’s
- Moderate Alzheimer’s
- Severe Alzheimer’s.
For more meaningful terms between professionals, caregivers and patients, a more detailed process has been characterized in seven stages. The seven stages are based on a system developed by Barry Reisberg, M.D., clinical director of the New York University School of Medicine’s Silberstein Aging and Dementia Research Center.
Stage 1 – Normal
This system calls a mentally healthy person at any age “Stage 1”.- No memory problems
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No problems with orientation
- person – your name, who you are;
- place – what country, state, city you live in, where you are;
- time – what day, date, season it is
- No problems with judgment
- No difficulties with communication skills
- No problems with daily activities
Stage 2 – Normal Aged Forgetfulness
More than half of all people ages 65 and older complain of cognitive difficulties. This is considered a normal part of aging.- Occasional lapses in memory, usually undetectable to family and friends
- Slight cognitive problems, also undetectable to friends and family, might also not be visible on medical exam
Stage 3 – Mild Cognitive Impairment
At this point, there are mild changes in memory, communication skills and/or behavior, noticeable to family members and friends. Symptoms might be picked up by an alert physician. Many people will not decline further than this point. Notwithstanding, a majority do progress to Mild Alzheimer’s within two to four years.- Problems remembering names, words for objects
- Difficulties functioning at work and in social settings
- Problems remembering newly-read material
- Misplacing important items with increasing frequency
- Decline in organizational skills and the ability to plan
- Repeating questions and evident anxiety
Stage 4 – Mild Alzheimer’s
Cognitive symptoms are more obvious now. A neurologist can confidently diagnose Alzheimer's disease and treat it with medications that have been proven effective in slowing it down.- Difficulty remembering personal details, recent events
- Some confusion possible (ie: might put towel in fridge)
- Impaired mathematical ability, financial management (trouble managing a checkbook – for those who did not have trouble managing one before)
- Social withdrawal
- Moodiness, depression
Stage 5 – Moderate Alzheimer's
This is the stage at which it is not possible for a person with Alzheimer's to live alone.- Severe memory loss, e.g., may not remember basic personal contact information such as current address or phone number
- Disorientation (not knowing the day/date/season, and/or location/country/state/city)
- No longer safe to cook, even if the sufferer can manage or remember the logistics of the process, due to severe short-term memory difficulties and confusion
- Wandering risk; might get lost once leaving the home
- Decreased personal hygiene skills
- Increased desire to sleep is common
Stage 6 – Moderately Severe Alzheimer's
It is at this stage that family members often suffer the most, because the loved one with Alzheimer's loses much of the ability to recognize those around him or her, even a spouse, sibling, parent or child. Personality changes are common as well.- Severe memory loss continues to intensify
- Withdrawal from surroundings
- Wandering
- Reduced awareness of recent events
- Problems recognizing loved ones, although it is still possible to differentiate between those who are familiar and those who are not
- "Sundowning", if it has not yet begun, makes its appearance at this point – this is the phenomenon of increased restlessness and agitation toward sundown (hence the name), in the late afternoon and evening hours
- Bathroom management becomes difficult; at this stage it often is necessary to switch to diapers due to incontinence, wetting and other such problems using the bathroom independently
- Paranoia, suspiciousness
- Shadowing, extreme anxiety, following a loved one around the house due to fears of being alone
- Repetitive, compulsive behavior (verbal and/or nonverbal)
Stage 7 – Severe Alzheimer's
This is the final stage of Alzheimer's disease, at which the long goodbye comes to an end. Even though the Alzheimer's person may somewhere inside really hear and understand what is being said, he or she can no longer respond, other than possibly to speak a word or phrase.- Communication is very limited
- Physical systems begin to deteriorate
- Gross motor coordination shuts down, may not be able to sit
- Swallowing may become difficult, choking is a risk
My comments to the article:
Interesting. Dad was given a clinical definition of moderately severe
alzheimer's over a year ago. However, from reading this list he is
somewhere around 4 or 5. Oddly though he's got about one symptom from
each of the different steps & none of the other symptoms from other
steps.
Never wandered, never forgot people from recent or long ago past (but
did mix up names), can't remember what he had for dinner but can play 21
as well as any of us. Has retained all basic math functions, decreased
personal hygiene skills, increased desire to sleep, reduced awareness
of recent events but still can handle a full phone conversation with me
every evening with every word correct, mildly incontinent, no confusion,
no agitation but no really recent memory. Remembers everything about
every town he used to live in up to 2 years ago. I have both parents
with alzheimer's & they are as different as snowflakes. My dad's
dementia has not changed in over a year. The same impairments as a year
ago but my mom went from 0 - almost dead in a year & a half. They
are all so different. It makes me wonder if it is the brain & which
sections are affected or what it is. At least my dad is with it enough
to still have a high quality of life.
Friday, February 1, 2013
Advice for Caregivers
Thanks to Caring.com for sharing this advice for caregivers from Duke University social worker Lisa Gwyther:
* Focus on what's left, not what's lost.
* Good things and joy can happen to those who have Alzheimer's.
* You, not your relative, will need to change.
* Don't distress; de-stress.
* Your life is now about adapting to a chronic condition; creating a "new normal."
* This is the rainy day for which you have saved.
* There are no perfect answers, no perfect families.
* Memorize this: "I did what seemed best at the time."
* Focus on what's left, not what's lost.
* Good things and joy can happen to those who have Alzheimer's.
* You, not your relative, will need to change.
* Don't distress; de-stress.
* Your life is now about adapting to a chronic condition; creating a "new normal."
* This is the rainy day for which you have saved.
* There are no perfect answers, no perfect families.
* Memorize this: "I did what seemed best at the time."
Mom - Thursday, Jan. 31, 2013
Mom - Thursday, Jan. 31, 2013
Mom was accepted & admitted today to a new nursing home in Plano. They have round the clock respiratory therapy for her trache needs. It is a pretty nice room. The nurses are nice too. I met her pulmonologist today along with the head of the respiratory dept. when they came to speak with me & check her out. Best part is it is closer to my house.
Mom was accepted & admitted today to a new nursing home in Plano. They have round the clock respiratory therapy for her trache needs. It is a pretty nice room. The nurses are nice too. I met her pulmonologist today along with the head of the respiratory dept. when they came to speak with me & check her out. Best part is it is closer to my house.
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