Friday, January 25, 2013
Shut the closet doors
Dad has adopted a strange habit as his
alzheimer's has advanced. In his nursing home room every closet door has
to be completely closed (not even an inch open or ajar). The problem is
if he forgets to close it himself before he gets in bed he orders me to
close the slightly open closet door before I leave. He does not ask -
he goes "Hey close the closet doors" Well in the last place if the
sliding door was open a half an inch He
would order me so I would just do it even if it was a crack. Tonight he
was in bed & said hey close the door there & I said no you can
handle that & I don't work at the nursing home. On my way down the
hall I could hear him say - So you are going to make me get out of bed
to do that? It struck me funny. No one was making him do anything. Why
not just leave the closet doors ajar? He can either get up & close
them or leave them ajar. I don't remember him being this OCD or
persnickity? I have always wondered though if he is just used to barking
orders at the staff & having them followed. He can always close
them before getting in bed.
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